Tuesday, 2 September 2014

Dreams for my son


My little boy just turned 8 months old. If the last 8 months were any indicator I am sure that in no time he will be on the bus going to school! While I am truly looking forward to the benefits of his growing up in the United States I also worry about him missing out on what I had growing up in India. While I am excited about him growing up to be confident and independent I worry if he will respect the wisdom of age and experience. While I am sure he will be an effective communicator, I wonder if he will be able to solve Math problems in his head. While I know that he will have all the possible options that anyone can ever have while growing up in a developed country I shudder to think of him growing up without the fire in his belly and determination to succeed no matter what!

Well, you may say, no one forced him to study in the United States, if it is so worrisome, or is it? I don't know why I worry. But more importantly I don't know why I have to chose one or the other - why can't I have it all? Why can't my son have the best of both worlds, in fact why can't he have the best of all the world? Why Can't he?

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